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Key Takeaways When people meet me now, they often assume I have always been this self assured. The truth is quieter than that. Sex work did not magically hand me…

Key Takeaways Queenstown is a paradox in heels: wild landscapes, luxury aesthetics, and a party town heartbeat that never fully switches off. It attracts honeymooners and high rollers, ski tourists…

Key Takeaways There’s a myth that good sex is something that “just happens” when two people have chemistry. But in my experience as an escort in Melbourne, the best sex…

Key Takeaways There’s a certain kind of message escorts see almost every day. It usually starts with “hey” or “wyd”, sometimes with a selfie, sometimes with a wink emoji that…

Key Takeaways There are moments in my work that stay with me long after the booking ends. Not because they were outrageous or wild in the way people imagine, but…

Key Takeaways There’s a quiet moment I’ve learned to recognise over the years. It’s when someone admits, usually with a nervous laugh, that they’re curious about butt plugs but don’t…

Key Takeaways There is a romantic idea attached to touring as an escort. Suitcases packed, hotel mirrors that don’t know your name yet, and the sense that for a brief…

Key Takeaways: By the time I reached the second half of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, I realised something quietly reassuring. The first three habits had helped me…

Key Takeaways People often assume escorting is reactive work, that we simply respond to inquiries, moods, or desires as they come. In reality, longevity in this industry requires an unusual…

Key Takeaways I still remember the first time a client surprised me by listening better than most lovers ever had. It was early in my career, maybe my sixth booking,…

Key Takeaways Time feels elastic in dating, texting or planning an evening, but on an escort directory profile, it’s startlingly compressed. At Ivy Societe, we watch it play out thousands…

Key takeaways: As someone who has worked for years as an escort in Australia, one of the most unexpected lessons I learnt early on is that erectile dysfunction is not…

Key Takeaways Burnout is a word we hear thrown around often, but very few people talk about what it really feels like inside the escort world. From the outside, my…

Key Takeaways: As someone who regularly tours to Newcastle, I’ve learned that this coastal city has a way of heightening connection. Maybe it’s the sea air rolling in from Merewether…

Key Takeaway Ivy Societe is a modern Australian Escort Directory, every feature on the platform exists for a reason. Nothing has been added simply because “other directories do it,”. The…

Key Takeaways Why Long Bookings Create a Better Escort Experience I’ve been an escort long enough to see the same pattern repeat itself. The bookings people remember, talk about, and…

Key Takeaways • Celebrate Christchurch’s culinary evolution with diverse dining options catering to escort dates, emphasizing respect and comfort. • Highlight high-end restaurants like Gatherings and Curator’s House for luxurious…

TL;DR Newcastle is more than a coastal city, it’s a night-time destination that combines vibrant dining, buzzing bars, and distinct live entertainment. Whether you’ve booked a Newcastle escort for companionship during your…

TL;DR Let’s be direct. Hygiene is not a “nice extra” in sex work bookings. It is foundational. It affects chemistry, comfort, safety, enthusiasm, and how present and engaged your escort…

TL;DR Virginity. Few words carry as much cultural weight, confusion, and unnecessary anxiety. From outdated myths about “popping the cherry” to Hollywood sex scenes that set expectations no real human…

TLDR: Should You Have a Threesome? Threesomes have become one of the most openly discussed sexual fantasies in long term relationships, and, for many couples, a deeply bonding experience when…

Auckland is full of restaurants that quietly excel at setting the mood. Intimate little hideaways, buzzy neighbourhood staples, elegant hotel dining rooms, and relaxed spots perfect for a first meeting….

Any escort would tell you timewasters are inevitable, but I am here to share how to spot a timewaster early and prevent them from taking up space in your business….

Deciding whether or not to show your face in the adult industry is one of the most personal and impactful choices you will make as a worker. This decision reaches…

Finding an escort nearby is something many clients search for when they want connection, intimacy, companionship, or a memorable experience without unnecessary travel. Whether you’re planning a spontaneous evening, a…

When planning a date with an escort, the environment you choose can make the experience smoother, safer and far more enjoyable for both of you. After years of doing hotel…

Choosing the right companion is not just about scrolling through photos or comparing prices. At Ivy Societe, we know this journey is deeply personal. With years of experience supporting both…

Entering the world of kink can feel like stepping into a completely new universe; rich, diverse, and often misunderstood. Pop culture has fed society a limited and sometimes harmful understanding…

Creating a standout escort profile isn’t just about looking stunning in your photos (though that certainly helps). In today’s competitive online space, your words carry just as much weight. Your…

When you’re in a relationship with someone who works in the sex industry, love alone isn’t enough. While attraction, chemistry, and connection might bring you together, navigating the emotional landscape…

There’s a quiet kind of support, the kind that doesn’t go viral or make for a punchy bio line, but still shifts the ground beneath our feet. If you’ve ever…

On Thursday, 16 October 2025, our community came together at Metropolis in Southbank, Melbourne to honour the people and projects who keep sex work visible, respected, and thriving. The SW…

The Go-To Experts for Sex Workers & Adult Content Creators Let’s be real, running your own business is empowering, but the financial side? Not always so sexy. Between tax laws,…

In today’s world, trust and authenticity are paramount when connecting with others, especially in professional and personal services. For clients seeking to book with escorts, the ability to verify a…

Read the fine print  When interacting on Ivy Societe, professionalism and mutual respect are key to creating positive experiences. Clients must take time to familiarise themselves with each advertiser’s policies,…

Why Verification Matters We want Ivy Societe to be a safe space, a thriving community, and a platform where advertisers can confidently conduct their business. Verification of advertiser profiles is…

Join us for the 4th Annual Ivy Société SWer Only Gala, an exclusive event dedicated to the sex work community. On March 23rd, 2025, we’re bringing Santorini to Melbourne with…

At Ivy Societe, we’re dedicated to creating a safe, trustworthy platform for clients and advertisers alike. One of the simplest and most impactful ways to support the community and enhance…

Staying connected with your audience is crucial for maintaining bookings and building lasting relationships, especially in an industry where social media censorship is a persistent challenge. Sex workers frequently face…

Keeping up with Ivy Societe advertisers is now easier than ever. Following their profiles unlocks features that keep clients informed, prepared, and ready to enjoy experiences to the fullest. Whether…

For sex workers, reviews play a vital role in attracting bookings. Reviews build trust and credibility, helping potential clients feel confident in choosing the right service provider. On our site,…

Looking for some fresh reading that offers an authentic, no-holds-barred look into the world of escorts? Here’s a list of must-read books about sex work, from memoirs to critical analysis,…

In recent years, societal norms have undergone significant shifts, leading to a more open and accepting attitude towards women’s desires and needs. Among these changes is the growing trend of…

When it comes to engaging the services of a Melbourne male escort, there are a variety of booking options to suit every need and desire. Whether you’re a client looking…

For any client, embarking on a first encounter with a male escort can be an exhilarating experience filled with anticipation and curiosity. Whether you’re looking for companionship, a romantic evening,…

When it comes to creating unforgettable experiences, booking a Melbourne male escort from Ivy Societe can be the perfect way to add a touch of excitement and sophistication to a…